Assalamualaikum,
Ooppss, title hari ni macam panas-panas gitu.. Don't worry, the content is safe to be read by semua peringkat..
Since we have Faris in our life, I somehow feel there's distance between me and Enche Suami. Bukanlah distance literally, I mean, macam jarang nak sembang about you and me, about us.. *wahh..,gitu..*.
Ye lah, now that we've got more responsibility, I'm busy with my work, so does he. And we have 2 children to take care of, a house to be managed and macam-macam lagi.. So there's not much time to talk about each other. Most of the conversation, is about Fatin & Faris, about financial stuff, household and things like that. Macam susah sangat nak talk about 'how was your day?' kind of stuff..
Pulak tu, our workplace jauh-jauh.. Enche suami kat PJ sana, I dekat Gombak.. So nak buat lunch date pun macam susah la.. My parents, when both of them were still working, selalu buat lunch date. Ayah came to Mama's office to pick her up, then they went lunch together. Masa tu lah they had their 'you-and-me talk' kot.. At least,once a week la.. In my case, tak seswai, sebab jauh.. Habis masa on the road je.. Lunch nya kejap,pastu dah rushing balik tempat kerja masing-masing.. Huhuhuhu..
I guess *and I hope* it is normal when we have new member in the family. We need time to adjust and of course the priority is on the responsibility. Kan? Serabut kot, dengan baby, dengan very-talkative-and-attention-seeker girl,rumah and etc..Rasanya masa mula-mula dapat Fatin dulu pun ada go through the same situation. But,things were back to normal as Fatin grew up.. Sedar tak sedar,macam ok balik..
Despite the acceptable reasons of this situation, I do think, if it's possible, then it is better to find the solution asap. Otherwise, bahaya jugak kalau kita tak tau apa masalah spouse, kita kurang perhatian dengan hidup dia, tetibe tau-tau dah ada cawangan pulak! Ehhh......ke situ pulak peginya eh?? Hahahaha...
*Enche suami, bukan I su'u dzan ye...I tengah discussing the issue..Jangan marah.. I lap u..Hahaha..*
*Enche suami, bukan I su'u dzan ye...I tengah discussing the issue..Jangan marah.. I lap u..Hahaha..*
Tu yang terjumpa pasal pillow talk ni.. For me, pillow talk does not necessarily ended up with, you know, 'ehem-ehem' *parental advise statement! Hahaha...*
It can just be an HONEST conversation between a husband & wife to tighten the bond. Sambil baring-baring sebelum tidur *of course selepas anak-anak dah tidur lah! Kalau anak-anak tak tidur lagi, maka diorang lah yang menyibuk kat tengah-tengah...Hahaha..*, talk about how was ur class today ke, correction ok ke, makan apa ke... Sounds simple, but personal.. Just a story about you and me.. Wrap it up with bermaaf-maafan session, a goodnite kiss maybe,then tidur.. *hanya utk suami isteri yang sah ye! Sila tahu...*
Tak banyak, sikit pun ok.. At least, kita tahu apa yg terjadi dengan hidup pasangan kita hari tu..,apa masalah dia hari tu..Kan?
Well, guess we should implement this, kan Enche Suami? Haha.. Anyway, one might think that I mengada post things like this dekat blog.. Propose directly dekat Enche Suami lah, kenapa tulis dekat blog.. Memang I akan propose dekat husband *in case dia tak baca post ini lah..hahaha*, tetapi tujuan utama I post dekat blog adalah utk share the concept.. Kot-kot ada yang mengalami masalah yg sama, maka boleh sama-sama take this alternative as an option.. Kalau mau la, kalau ada solution yg lebih gempak, share lah jugak.. Boleh urs truly consider jugak.. Sharing kan caring... hihi..
So k lah... Happy Thursday semua!!
Wassalam...
Loads of love,
* Farah Jasni*
Kita selalu update about each other mase balik n pergi kije after n before hantar or amik hani... Sometimes weekend, mak teh bagi chance tuk pergi dating dengan maksu and boy.. so, masih rase feeling2 pengantin baru la... wakakakak tapi xpe along... 2 kids at home pun still blh pengantin baru... gud luck sister...
ReplyDeleteUr advantage pergi and balik kerja sama-sama dear.Hehehe..Along dengan suami ku pergi kerja menaiki kenderaan lain-lain.Kalau kat meja makan,mesti sembang hal anak-anak & rumah. Kalau tak,bila pulak nak bincang hal keluarga.. Tak dan dah nak sembang pasal hal personal masing-masing. Baru anak dua ni! Hahaha... So in need of working solution! :) Tq my dear..
DeleteAgree and like the concept. Actually to Nuurill, it's a very healthy discussion Farah, because sometimes we are thinking or feeling very shy to 'kupas' this issue, Even to propose to the husband. Selamat ber pillow talk. Pillow Talk je tau! wakakakaka.
ReplyDeleteHi nuurill! Lama tak dengar cerita.. Hehehe.. Yup,kebanyakan wanita Malaysia ni malu nak sembang pasal menda-menda ni.Pendam-pendam dalam hati je,kang takut makan diri.. Betul tak? Hihi.. I personally think, between husband n wife, kena banyak communication. I should know everything about you, and you should know as much as u can about me. Bahye kalau makanan feberet husband yg latest pon kita tak aware.. Tau yg masa zaman dulu2 cinta tengah berbunga-bunga..Nway,thanks a lot for the support!
DeleteInsyaAllah,mari lah kita ber'pillow talk' dengan husband masing-masing.. Eh, kalau ter'lebih' pun tak apa,halalun toiyiban.. Oooppsss... Hahahaha
Ifah pun feel the same.. sejak sibuk ni rasa mcm distance sangat dengan husband... Mungkin boleh apply cara ni hihi.. Ifah ada kawan jugak yg long distance relationship, diaorg suka guna YM... Masalah husband plak keje tak duduk depan lappy huhuhu... So tak boleh apply cara diaorg lah huhu
ReplyDeleteGlad I'm not the only one dear! Huhuhuhu... Kadang2 rasa tak cukup 24jam.. Hahaha.. Manakan nak layan anak,uruskan hal rumah,termenung pikir masa depan diri *ehh,masuk schedule jugak..Hahaha..*,busy study n kerja.. Kan?
DeleteSedar tak sedar,'overlooked' hubungan dengan suami.. N for me,'hubungan suami isteri' does not necessarily means 'ehem-ehem' sahaja.. communication pon method of 'hubungan' yg penting juga utk dijaga..
Tak apa,kita cuba sama-sama.. Mengurangkan 'distance' itu.. Chayyok! :)