Masuk JAWI..

Assalamualaikum u'ols..

Apa khabar hari nih? Harap-harap semuanya dalam keadaan sihat walafiat, InsyaAllah..

Yesterday, on 23rd of April 2013, secara rasminya, my brave son dah masuk JAWI... 

Ha...apa itu masuk JAWI? Jeng,jeng,jeng..

Menurut ayahanda, term ' dah masuk Jawi' itu adalah indication to say dah berkhatan/bersunat... Dah bujang la konon.. Back then, kids are usually circumcised at their age of 10-12 years old. Dah dekat-dekat nak remaja, so bujang la konon..

As for us, we had planned it for a long time, if we have a son, we want him to be circumcised masa baby. Reason being, baby punya recovery process cepat. So,InsyaAllah, luka cepat baik. Then, baby tak makan lagi.. So tak payah nak pantang-pantang. And baby tak berapa lasak lagi.. So, senang nak jaga.. hehe... Win-win situation. Convenient for the baby, as well as the parents.   

So Alhamdulillah, Faris has been safely circumcised yesterday at Al-Islam Specialist Hospital (previously known as Kampung Baru Medical Center). Done by Dr Shahrul, pediatric surgeon kat KBMC tu by plastibell ring method (click at the link to know more about the method).

For those yg interested, or might be looking for option nak khatan kan ur boy, I would say, KBMC is one of the convenient option jugak la.. What you have to do is to call KBMC to set an appoinment for the procedure. Oh ya, the circumcision procedure is only conducted on every Tuesday starting from 2pm. So, u just call a week before, set an appointment. Then on the respective day, datang, bawak baby, register at the counter, fill up one sheet of form, then pay the charge, RM 150, then tunggu kena panggil. The procedure took only around 10 minutes. In KBMC, parents are not allowed to enter the operation room. So we had to wait outside. Cuma satu yg tak berapa best KBMC ni, parking! Tau-tau je lah kepadatan area Kg Baru tu.

Alhamdulillah, everything is done now..Bujang dah anak mama, walopon baru 42 hari today..Hihihi.. Oh ya, for those yg ada terbaca my FB status regarding nak makan luar on 40th day of confinement, sebenarnya, masa tu I baru 39 hari berpantang u'ols! I salah kira! MasyaAllah.. Tak berniat nak kelentong tau! memang my bad lah, salah kira! Bila kira-kira balik, rupanya masa tu baru 39 hari! Hahaha...

One more thing that I wanna share, setakat semalam, Faris' weight is 4.98kg! Alhamdulillah, anak mama memdebab bagaikan juara.. Hahaha.. When he was born, his weight was 2.85kg. After a month (33 days) we went for his immunization shot, the weight was 4.2kg. A week after that, dah 4.98kg.. Alhamdulillah..,as for today, he is still fully breastfeeding.. :)

Konon tenang lah menunggu turn nak masuk jawi..

Di sinilah ia berlaku, Al-Islam Specialist Center

Mama & Faris

4.98kg boy...

Ok, before I stop, just to share some points about khatan.

1. Do you know that 'khatan' was never mentioned in Al-Quran? However, Rasulullah s.a.w was circumcised, and he also circumcised his son. So there was debate about khatan being wajib to be done upon the muslim boys by the group who only accepts Al-Quran as the source. But due to mazhab Shafie & Hanbali, circumcision is wajib upon muslim.
2. Khatan is not wajib for muslimat. It is encouraged to do so tho. But in some Muslim country like Arab, the women do not perform khatan since it is said that khatan will make their sexual organ less sensitive and reducing the sexual drive. Well, it is scientifically proven that people in different part of the world has different sexual drive and requirement. Guess the standard is a bit lower here in Malaysia since khatan has been practiced upon women since turun temurun and tak ada dengar pulak wanita Malaysia menghadapi masalah kurang sexual drive *kot?Hahaha..* 

K lah.. Bye.. Wassalam..      

Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

14th march:faris rusydi sees the world (part 2)

Since my bp was way too high,around 5 sumtin am,i was given a medicine,for hypertension...lepas tu barulah i dapat tidur sekejap..

At 6,i woke up,freshing up a bit,then i performed my subuh prayer.right after that,a nurse came in and told me dat we were going to labor room shortly...
Dlm hati i,cepatnya pindah labor room!bertambah saspen lah ini macam.she said d induction procedure will b prformed there..

So,kami pon pindah labor room.n i pulak,entah nrvous sgt ke hape,asik nak terkencing.in fact,masa kat ward lagi dah ulang alik toilet..mujur dalam labor room tu ada toilet ..

Masa midwife datang pasangkan d CTG machine on me,i asked about d induction.dia kata,dia nak cek dulu b4 masuk ubat..so she checked *baca:seluk to check the opening*,jeng jeng jeng,kak midwife tu kata dah bukak 3cm! Heh? I terkejut beruk mak yeh juga la.maknanya,i memang dh nak labor dgn sndirinya without ubat lah!

Akak tu tny,tak ada rasa sakit-sakit ke?i geleng je.memang tak de lagi.then she said,since dah opened by 3cm,tak leh nak insert ubat induce dah.. *baca : ubat yg dimasukkan kot bawah*.So I expected that they will just let me have normal labor,meaning,rasa sakit and wait till my cervix is fully dilated (10cm) sendiri..

Around 9 something, Dr Zalina (the gynae) came in just to check on me. So I pun tanya lah, tak jadi induce ke, since dah dilated by 3cm. Doc was shocked.she didn't knew that I missed the 6am induce procedure that she had scheduled. So the midwife was called and asked. I tak berapa nak dengar the conversation since they discussed while walking out from the labor room *and sebenarnya tak berapa nak faham jugak since they used all these kinds of medical shortforms..haha*.

Tak lama kemudian, the midwife came in taking some stuffs from the laci and datang kat I and pasang all those IV thingy and letak a bag of liquid. Hubby tanya, apa menda pulak ni, mdiwife jawab, ubat induce.. Just to speed up the dilation..
Not long after that, she came to break the water bag. Oh man, the procedure is painful. Maybe b'cos, it was only 3cm by then when she broke the water bag. I dunno.. Masa Fatin last time, the midwife broke the water bag when I already dilated by 6cm. So masa tuh mmg dah sakit contraction kuat, so, tak kisah dah apa yg dia dok buat..*kot?..haha*

Tak sampai one hour after that, bermulalah azab sakit contraction.. I think, since the water bag has been broken *quite early i wud say* and plus the induction med yg terus masuk darah tru IV, the pain terus spike macam ke hape.. Memang nangis ok! And if I remember correctly, the pain is worse than the pain giving birth to Fatin. Maybe masa Fatin, tahap kesakitan tuh naik sikit-sikit. So my body adapt better kot. This time, dia macam spike terus, ada sedikit shock di situ.. Agaknya lah... Haha..

Midwife offered a pain killer shot, cepat-cepat angguk. Lepas kena cucuk, she gave me, some sort of gas mask tuh, and asked me to breath in through the mask kalau sakit sangat. Sekali dua I sedut, terus macam lalok.. Tiba-tiba nampak husband makin jauh,makin jauh...Suara pun dengar sayup-sayup je..

I thought, with the help of that, I can sleep soundly la.Since mmg lalok sangat rasa.. Tetapi, angan-angan ku musnah, sekejap je lena, then contraction datang frequently and kuat sangat.. Lalok camana pon, sakit tu tetap rasa.. Hadoi la... I think I cried like a baby kot mengadu kat Enche Jdai.. Alhamdulillah, this time around, he was there all the time by my side. Tho there's notin he could do to reduce the pain, but somehow, his presence there is enough..hehehe...

Few hours after that, the midwife came in and checked my progress. Alhamdulillah, 6cm dilated. So, they started to prepare equipments for delivery. Only God knows how hard I prayed for it to be over... Not long after that, I started to feel the urge to push. I bukak mata, looked around, Dr Zalina wasn't there yet. Ah sudah..! I started to worry the possibilities of giving birth on my own.. I mean without doctor's presence.

Nasib baik not long after that I heard her voice. Guess doc ni memang cool lah.. Dalam tengah kalut-kalut preparing herself nak sambut baby tuh, sempat lagi chatting with the nurses *if i'm not mistaken they were 3 or 4 nurses in there including kakak midwife tu..* pasal baju lah, tudung lah.. Hahaha... Lagi tak tahan, hubby pon menyampuk jugak! Sebab somehow, he happened to know the location of the kedai yg Dr Zalina tuh mentioned! Cet! Aku tengah nak bersabung nyawa nih, depa leh sembang pasal kedai baju pulak eh! hehehe..

Then when everything was ready, I heard doc said, "Sikit je lagi nih.. Dah nampak dah rambut baby..".. Siap offer hubby tengok sekali.. Masa dengar tuh, I rasa bersemangat sikit. thinking that it will be over, and gonna see the lil guy that I carried for 9months soon. So when the contraction came, I pushed as hard as I could. Mula-mula I pegang tangan 'halus' my husband tuh. But then the midwife didn't let me to. Instead, she asked me to hold besi tepi katil tu. She said,"tarik besi tuh sampai panjang, tak apa..".. Dalam sakit-sakit tuh sempat pulak pikir, "boleh ke besi ni jadi panjang aku tarik?".. Hehehe.. Silly me!

Alhamdulillah, with the total of 3 strong pushes, Muhammad Faris Rusydi was born. To be honest, I rili felt that if I failed to give birth to Faris with that 3 pushes, then maybe he will need to be vacuumed out since mama dah black out. Seriously... The pain was.., MasyaAllah, can't be described. memang I pushed sekuat hati to make sure it worked out since I mmg dah rasa macam nak mati dah.. *ohh..over dramatic choice of word! hehe*
Tapi Alhamdulillah..., Allah tuh Maha Mengetahui, Penyayang dan Mengasihani.. HE will never let HIS servant to suffer the burden that he/she cannot bear.. Maka lahirlah anakanda Faris ke dunia, Alhamdulillah dalam keadaan sihat walafiat..

Syukur, Allah panjangkan umur ku utk mendengar tangisan pertama anakanda..
Syukur, Allah berikan aku rezeki untuk menyusukan anakanda buat pertama kali...
Syukur, Ya Allah, kerana menyelamatkan aku dan memberi aku kekuatan menghadapi kesakitan terhebat selepas sakitnya sakaratulmaut..
dan
Setinggi-tinggi syukur, Ya Rabb, kerana menghadiahkan aku zuriat yang sempurna, sihat dan indah, Muhammad Faris Rusydi bin Mohd Rozaidi...
Alhamdulillah...

2nd day of his life

My heroes..

Assalamualaikum world..

The two most precious gifts in my life, Fatin Amani & Faris Rusydi..

So long, dear friend...

Assalamualaikum u'ols..,

By now, guess my dear friend, Izzah and her family is safely arrived in UK... She and her husband, who is also a friend of mine, Farid flied to UK yesterday to do their PhD there in York University, UK..

Sedih la juga.. Entah bila pulak lah nak berjumpa... Tapi tak apa, InsyaAllah, when both of us, eh silap, 3 of us has finished our responsibility to complete our PhD soon, InsyaAllah, we'll be serving Kulliyyah of Engineering,IIUM together..,InsyaAllah.. Boleh jumpa selalu... ;p

So, Izzah @ Cik Jah, take care dear friend! InsyaAllah, I'll pray for ur success hidup jauh di perantauan.. Keep in touch tau! Gonna miss u much... Huhuhu...Farid, jaga kawan aku baik-baik tau! Hehehe.. 

Sahabat dah pergi.. Aku masih lagi berfikir-fikir mana nak pergi for PhD.. Dyana, Fendy, kita nak ke mana pulak? Hehe
Ramai org ckp, dah dapat sponsor, pi lah buat overseas! Ada betulnya.. Macam rugi tak grab this opportunity. Bukan semua org diberikan rezeki. Tapi, wallahu a'lam.. Banyak yg kena diambil kira.. Haihhh.....

InsyaAllah, dah dapat kata sepakat suami isteri, boleh lah mula mencari dengan serious. For now, I just want to focus on my viva and thesis correction first!

Semoga ALLAH permudahkan urusan aku dan sahabat-sahabat menuntut ilmu.. Amin...

On her wedding day..

Zaman muda remaja..The 4 of us, Farid, Izzah, me, and Enche Jdai

Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Mengada la teww....

Assalamualaikum....

Morning! U'ols,sejak dua menjak ni,phone i selalu hang.mungkin sebab lately it is heavily used.almaklumla,org berpantang,bila sangap tu belek phone lah!fb,twitter,blog,youtube.semua pun nak bukak lah!memang jadi stalker,tiap status org i baca!hahaha.
*note:situation describe above is only applicable when fatin amani is at school.otherwise,memang mama tak menang tgn layan dua2 permata hatiku ini..haha*

Mungkin juga petanda that i should get a new phone?maybe yg lebih canggih processornya like s3 or note2?or mayb iphone?err,enche jdai?kot-kot enche jdai nak hadiahkan saya phone baru ke?

Wakakakakaka......

Mula la nak mengada tewww *this is how d youngsters spell 'tu' nowadays.guess,d purpose is to enhance effect mengada d situ.hahaha*

Sudah!jangan nak berangan!phone hang dok elok lagi.pakai sampai lunyai.lagipon anak kecik-kecik.phone canggih pon buat jadi lap hingus n mainan depa buat pe! *statement tru experience*

Lebih baik mintak cik abg belanja set shaklee utk kesihatan..lagi berbaloi-baloi! ;p