Assalamualaikum u'olls... And Salam Ramadhan..
Pejam celik,dah 9 hari kita ber'Ramadhan' tahun nih.. How time flies, kan? Anyway, how are u'olls doing so far? Hopefully kita semua dapat barakah Ramadhan tahun ni ye..
I've been quiet for a while *err...seminggu je kot!..* Honestly, I macam tatau nak cerita apa.. So dok diam je la kan.. Hehe..
Ok, in this entry, I wanna share one YouTube file entitled "Syoknya Puasa".. I believe some of you *err..probably most of u guys* had seen this video before..
This video is about training our children to fast during Ramadhan.. Watak utama dalam video? Ha..., jeng,jeng,jeng..mestila wanita yg saya minat itu, Wardina Safiyyah.. She shared her techniques or method in training her eldest daughter, Amna to fast during Ramadhan.. Amna is 8 years old this year..
I personally enjoy sangat video ni, and I memang ase guidance Wardina bagi memang tepat and applicable..
Korang tengok dulu video ek. Lepas ni kita cite-cite lagi... hehe..
So, what do u guys think? Best kan?
I love the part where she highlighted about the priority of training our child to Solat rather than fasting. She's sooo true when she said, we Malaysian were brought up with the mind set that during Ramadhan, we have to fast. If we don't then memang kita teruk gila la.. Tapi, no one cares, if a Muslim in Malaysia take his/her responsibility to solat 5 times a day leisurely.. Rasa nak buat, buat, kalau malas, tak buat! Betul kan?
Then about being honest about fasting. Memang betul, kalau zaman kita and I believe even during our parents childhood days, we were so afraid to tell our parents that tak larat nak puasa hari tuh.. Reason being, one, maybe takut parents marah, two, takut duit raya kena potong *this was my reason! ;p*, and I suppose ada banyak lagi..
So, kalau budak-budak yang gigih bertahan, dia tahan la.. BUT..yg jadi problem nya when the kids are so afraid to be honest with their mom/dad yg dia tak larat puasa, they tend to curik-curik bukak puasa behind their parents.. Which is even worse.. Naudzubillah.. When that happens, maknanya the parents bukan train anak-anak puasa la, train jadi penipu pulaknya.. Huhuhu..
These shouldn't be happening for our child generation.. And we are as parent really need to train our child well.. So, my humble opinion, sebagai parent yg ada tanggungjawab mendidik anak-anak, tak payah la being too strict and pushy. And again, Wardina is right, we need them to understand why they need to do this & that instead of forcing them to do something that they don't understand..
Budak-budak kot.. Kasik can la sket.. Kalau dia tak larat, bagi la berbuka. Sekurang-kurang dia mencuba. And pasal attire pon sama. I personally think, TAK APA sangat untuk pakaikan anak-anak yang mumayyiz ni pakai baju sexy-sexy sket.. I mean, we still need to consider their condition, kot panas ke, kot tak selesa ke, jadi rasanya tak salah pakaikan baju yang mungkin sexy sket..
I memang tak setuju la kalau kecik-kecik dah pakaikan tudung, pakai baju tutup segala menda, macam, tak seswai kot.. They are children for God sake.. kasik can la.. I memang intend untuk pakaikan Fatin segala skirt yang nampak betis, or sleeveless shirt & gown sampai dia umur 4 or 5 years.. I prefer dia selesa berpakaian rather than seksa dia menutup aurat sebelum waktunya.. haha..
|My sexy baby.. Auww..|
Well, that's my opinion.. Others might have different idea in mind kan..
So that's all.. Hoping that we can learn something from the video.. Selamat berpuasa & beribadah u'olls..
Till next time.
Loads of love,
* Farah Jasni*