selamat hari raya aidilfitri!

Assalamualaikum u'olls..

Ei,lamanya i tak hapdet ini blog.haha..tak de menda nak citer la.. Lagipon, bulan puasa nih, macam tak ada mood nak menulis. Rather than writing something that might annoy anybody, I wud prefer to be silent.. Much better kan? hehehe..

Ok.., hari nih 27th of Ramadhan.. Huwaaaa.... Cepatnya masa berlalu.. Honestly, jujur from bottom of my heart, I did bad for this Ramadhan.. Rasa kurang beriman.. :( Moga-moga Allah terima amalan I yg seciput tuh dan ampunkan segala dosa-dosa I.. Astaghfirullah hal azim.... Huhuhuhuhu.... :( And Allah, plz give me chance to be in another Ramadhan next year.., hoping that I can make up for this one...

Actually, in this entry, I wanna wish EID MUBARAK, SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI to u'olls... Di kesempatan ni, I mohon maaf and ampun, ikhlas dari hati, atas segala salah silap I, yang sengaja mahu pun tidak.. Ampunkan I ye kawan-kawan.. Actually, I pernah dengar satu ustaz cakap, memohon maaf dari Tuhan adalah lebih senang sebenarnya daripada memohon maaf dari sesama manusia. True! 

Sebab Allah itu naturenya PENGAMPUN dan PEMAAF, but, we human, ada rasa dendam, marah dan EGO. Jadi, kadang-kadang susah nak berlapang dada. Kan? I dunno bout u'olls, but I memang ada perasaan tu.. In fact, now pun, masih ada manusia yg I still marah and geram for what that makhlukat has done. Huhuhu.. Susahnya nak just let go and berlapang dada selapang-lapangnya... Hati kotor kot! Takpe, I'll try my best to work on it... Huhuhu.. Kalo kita tak memaagkan, cane orang len nak maafkan kita ye dak?

So, k lah.. Selamat Hari Raya kawan-kawan.. Yg nak balik kampung, please do be careful di jalan raya, ok! Stay alert and focus!
Yang naik flight/train/bus, berhati-hati dalam flight/train/bus! *err..cane tuh? Haha.. Pandai-pandai korang la.. ;p* 

Sebagai kad raya, aci tak I nak letak gambar kad raya yg anak dara I tulis untuk teacher dia je? Haha.. Aci la ek..

atin wrote this, but mama spelled for her..haha...

yg ketupat tuh campo tangan sang ayah...

selamat hari raya aidilfitri!

meet the DJ..hehe

 

cehh...berlakon jadi doc check diri sendiri...haha,k

bye u'olls... wassalam

Loads of love, * Farah Jasni*

Syoknya puasa..

Assalamualaikum u'olls... And Salam Ramadhan..

Pejam celik,dah 9 hari kita ber'Ramadhan' tahun nih.. How time flies, kan? Anyway, how are u'olls doing so far? Hopefully kita semua dapat barakah Ramadhan tahun ni ye..

I've been quiet for a while *err...seminggu je kot!..* Honestly, I macam tatau nak cerita apa.. So dok diam je la kan.. Hehe..

Ok, in this entry, I wanna share one YouTube file entitled "Syoknya Puasa".. I believe some of you *err..probably most of u guys* had seen this video before.. 

This video is about training our children to fast during Ramadhan.. Watak utama dalam video? Ha..., jeng,jeng,jeng..mestila wanita yg saya minat itu, Wardina Safiyyah.. She shared her techniques or method in training her eldest daughter, Amna to fast during Ramadhan.. Amna is 8 years old this year..

I personally enjoy sangat video ni, and I memang ase guidance Wardina bagi memang tepat and applicable.. 

Korang tengok dulu video ek. Lepas ni kita cite-cite lagi... hehe..

So, what do u guys think? Best kan? 

I love the part where she highlighted about the priority of training our child to Solat rather than fasting. She's sooo true when she said, we Malaysian were brought up with the mind set that during Ramadhan, we have to fast. If we don't then memang kita teruk gila la.. Tapi, no one cares, if a Muslim in Malaysia take his/her responsibility to solat 5 times a day leisurely.. Rasa nak buat, buat, kalau malas, tak buat! Betul kan?

Then about being honest about fasting. Memang betul, kalau zaman kita and I believe even during our parents childhood days, we were so afraid to tell our parents that tak larat nak puasa hari tuh.. Reason being, one, maybe takut parents marah, two, takut duit raya kena potong *this was my reason! ;p*, and I suppose ada banyak lagi.. 

So, kalau budak-budak yang gigih bertahan, dia tahan la.. BUT..yg jadi problem nya when the kids are so afraid to be honest with their mom/dad yg dia tak larat puasa, they tend to curik-curik bukak puasa behind their parents.. Which is even worse.. Naudzubillah.. When that happens, maknanya the parents bukan train anak-anak puasa la,  train jadi penipu pulaknya.. Huhuhu.. 

These shouldn't be happening for our child generation.. And we are as parent really need to train our child well.. So, my humble opinion, sebagai parent yg ada tanggungjawab mendidik anak-anak, tak payah la being too strict and pushy. And again, Wardina is right, we need them to understand why they need to do this & that instead of forcing them to do something that they don't understand.. 

Budak-budak kot.. Kasik can la sket.. Kalau dia tak larat, bagi la berbuka. Sekurang-kurang dia mencuba. And pasal attire pon sama. I personally think, TAK APA sangat untuk pakaikan anak-anak yang mumayyiz ni pakai baju sexy-sexy sket.. I mean, we still need to consider their condition, kot panas ke, kot tak selesa ke, jadi rasanya tak salah pakaikan baju yang mungkin sexy sket.. 

I memang tak setuju la kalau kecik-kecik dah pakaikan tudung, pakai baju tutup segala menda, macam, tak seswai kot.. They are children for God sake.. kasik can la.. I memang intend untuk pakaikan Fatin segala skirt yang nampak betis, or sleeveless shirt & gown sampai dia umur 4 or 5 years.. I prefer dia selesa berpakaian rather than seksa dia menutup aurat sebelum waktunya.. haha.. 

My sexy baby.. Auww..

Well, that's my opinion.. Others might have different idea in mind kan.. 

So that's all.. Hoping that we can learn something from the video.. Selamat berpuasa & beribadah u'olls..

Till next time. 

Wassalam..

 Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Mama, Saya Lapar..

Assalamualaikum u'olls...

Salam Ramadhan.. How are u'olls on the 1st day of Ramadhan.. I'm hoping that u'olls are in good health and even more energetic and alert than normal days.. InsyaAllah... 

Guess everyone knows that fasting shouldn't be an excuse for us to be weak, slow and worse becoming lazy.. Allah will never ask HIS servants to do anything that will cause bad effects to us. But unfortunately in Malaysia, we grew up with that perception.. Ramadhan is the month to relax-relax.., malas-malas.., tido-tido.. As if, when we're fasting, we can't do much/any work.. *yours truly pon sama dengan je... Haih...*

Patutnya tak camtuh kan? Do you guys remember the sirah, where Rasulullah s.a.w and sahabat even went to war during Ramadhan!! Amazing kan? Jom, baca sikit pasal Perang Badar.

Hehe.. Ok, now, back to the original topic.. Kisah Mama, Saya Lapar.. hehe.. Actually, I just wanna share with u'olls, I just bought a book entitled Mama, Saya Lapar written by Wardina Safiyyah *Oh.., I adore this woman!!*.. I believe, most of you mommies knew this book, and I believe most of you had it already..

Actually, I was introduced to this book by a very good friend of mine.. Pn Izzah Sidek.. *Thanks Cik Jah!!*.. Lama dah.. In fact, almost a year dah.. It was Ramadhan last year when we double date for iftar secara berjemaah.. Hehe.. She lent me her copy. Masa tuh, Fatin was just started to take solid. So, she let me borrow the book for my guidance.. It do really helps.. Banyak yang I belajar from the book.. 

So, after a year, and since I guess Izzah might also need the book now for her kids *we mommies always need to refer to something isn't it?*, so I decided to have my own copy.. Thus, it's easier for me to refer.. Although I dah katam sekali baca buku tuh, tapi of course lah tak dapat nak hafal semua info dalam tuh kan? So, better ada my own copy for reference.. 

And I tell u'olls what, memang sangat worth it to buy this book.. Banyak graphics and the points are elaborated in such an interesting and eye-catchy way.. 

Information? Of course loadssss of it.. Ada certain things that we might think remeh, tapi bila kita hadapi masalah tuh, kita garu kepala tak tau nak buat apa.. Contohnya masalah anak dengan sayur.. *tak payah anak la, kadang-kadang the mommies & daddies pon ada problem dengan sayur! Haha*.. Then how to handle children yg liat sangat nak makan.. Then ada jugak info on breastfeeding.. And yg I paling suka, ada some recipes that Wardina suggests for kids berbeza-beza ikut umur.. For me yg slalu pening apa nak bagi anakanda makan ni, memang a big help la..

So, I memang recommend for mommies yang looking for reference for your kids's diet and eating habit, this book is just perfect!

I surely believe, the book is available in any book store. Sebab the penerbit is Alaf21.. But, I bought my copy via online je.. Haha.. Biasala, I kan pemalas.. So, ada online, rembat terus. I ordered thru Karangkraf Mall. Price is RM19.90 sahaja.. :)

Together with "Mama, Saya Lapar" book, I also ordered a novel, entitled "Valentina Nervosa".. Actually, the author of this novel was my schoolmate masa kat SMKA Kuala Selangor dulu.. Nurul Syahida.. The novel is super best! *not because she's my friend or watsoeva, but citer tuh memang best tau!*.. I dah baca 2 of her novels. This "Valentina Nervosa" and "Aku kan Novelis". Both of it memang tak mengecewakan.. Khusyuk nih baca.. *sampai geram ngan Fatin bila ngada-ngada tarik perhatian bila mama tengah layan novel.. Ish..ish..ish... Bad Mama...! *

Going to get another 2 of her novels soon.. "Plain Jane" and "Soalnya Hati"..

Therefore for friends yang suka baca novel *dan berangan we are the heroin of the story while reading it..oooppss...*, try to read one of Nurul Syahida novel, terbitan Buku Prima, I guarantee, u'olls mesti nak carik her karya yang lain.. Hehe.. Such a talented author! *aih.. up member lebih nampak! Haha..*

Books yang BEST!!

Guess that's all for now.. Till next time.. Have a good day, selamat berpuasa, dan berbuka puasa u'olls!! Muuaaahh... ;p

Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*