14th march : Faris rusydi sees the world

Assalamualaikum,

Kali ni,i nak post rentetan kisah melahirkan my hero ni.kinda a memoir la,so that nanti bila i dah tua,dah lupa,leh baca semula.or mana tau faris leh baca sendiri nanti.hahaha.

So,as i mentioned earlier in my previous post (title:preeclampsia),i was admitted on 13th.act,doc suruh dtg after midnight,jd nya kalau ikut date,dah masuk 14th la..reason being,dia nak tolong i cut cost frm being charged for ward extra 1 night.considerate kan?hehehe..

So mlm tu,lepas tidurkan fatin,around 1130pm camtu,kami gerak from mama's house.agak dramatic malam tu,coz i dunno why,i was so emotional and felt so sad nak tinggalkan d sleeping fatin.i kissed her like more than 20times kot before i left.was worried dat it might be d last time i can see n kiss her.even pesan kat my sis,if anytin happen to me,plz take care of fatin like her own.. *emo kan?*

Done salam2 and mintak maaf n ampun frm my parents n siblings,hubby n i departed to d hospital.Actually started daripada siang tu,after being told dat i need to deliver my baby d very next day,hati dah dup-dap dah.a friend said,lebih baik rasa sakit nak beranak tu spontaneously rather than dah tahu awal,esok ko akan rasa sakit beranak!double nervous kot.haha.i pon tak tahu,sebab tak ada pengalaman rasa spontaneous delivery's pain.both times pun induced.hehe.

Sampai hospital,register,bla,bla,around 1am,we were ushered to d ward.alhamdulillah,guess mmg rezeki kami,dapat ward single bedded room like what we requested,inspite of being told dat d maternity wards were fully occupied at 1st.i dah cuak jugak,takut tak dapat single bedded.policy hospital for maternity ward,kalo non single bedded,husband tak leh teman..memang tak mo la kan,tengah nervous tu,kena dok sorang plak.so alhamdulillah,dapat jugak room yg mengizinkan enche jdai temankan isterinya yg manja ini,ahaks!

Hubby asked me to get some nice sleep.esok nak pakai energy byk,he said.i couldn't agree more,but,d thing is,i jz couldn't fall asleep!maybe i was too nervous,plus too anxious to meet d little one..nurse came over to check my bp,n it was not less than 160,everytime!parah tk parah la penangan nervous nk beranak!haha..

(to be continued..)

Kisah BCG...

Assalamualaikum,

Jz now,ayah,mama and i were chatting regarding faris' bcg shot.then ayah told his experience taking bcg shot when he was a lil boy.

Like nowadays,people from clinic/hospital came over to d school to jab d students.during that time,they addressed dis medical assistant as 'dressa' (dresser). So ayah n his friends were asked to que up.he was so afraid being jabbed *even until now!* thought hard on how he can escaped frm being shot.coincidently,1 of his friends that was queing wif him was also scared. So dis 2 lil boys agreed to cooperate.guess what they did?
They pinched each other so hard,until there's a mark on their arm! Then they claimed to d dressa,dat they already got their shot since there was mark on their arm!
Unfortunately,the dressa didn't buy it,and these 2 fellas had to b back in line n finally being shot wif bcg jab.. As for my ayah,he had to bear d pain on both arms,one of being jabbed n d other one of being pinched!

Mama n i were laughing so loud sampai faris pun terjaga.hahaha.pity atok kan fatin and faris? Punya takut kena jab,sanggup kena cubit! Harap badan je besar.. ;p

Preeclampsia

Assalamualaikum,

Today, I would like to share an info related to pregnancy and postpartum disease called "preeclampsia". Why do I want to share this, later I story-story keh.. Hehehe..

What is preeclampsia?

Preeclampsia is a disorder that occurs only during pregnancy and the postpartum period and affects both the mother and the unborn baby. Affecting at least 5-8% of all pregnancies, it is a rapidly progressive condition characterized by high blood pressure and the presence of protein in the urine. Swelling, sudden weight gain, headaches and changes in vision are important symptoms; however, some women with rapidly advancing disease report few symptoms.

Typically, preeclampsia occurs after 20 weeks gestation (in the late 2nd or 3rd trimesters or middle to late pregnancy) and up to six weeks postpartum, though in rare cases it can occur earlier than 20 weeks. Proper prenatal care is essential to diagnose and manage preeclampsia. Pregnancy Induced Hypertension (PIH) and toxemia are outdated terms for preeclampsia. HELLP syndrome and eclampsia (seizures) are other variants of preeclampsia.

Globally, preeclampsia and other hypertensive disorders of pregnancy are a leading cause of maternal and infant illness and death. By conservative estimates, these disorders are responsible for 76,000 maternal and 500,000 infant deaths each year.  

Signs and symptoms

• No Symptoms
• Hypertension
• Proteinuria
• Edema (Swelling)
• Sudden Weight Gain
• Nausea or Vomiting
• Abdominal (stomach area) and/or Shoulder Pain
• Lower back pain
• Headache
• Changes in Vision
• Hyperreflexia 

(Source : http://www.preeclampsia.org/)

Basically, that is some information of the disorder called preeclampsia. Do visit the website yeah? There's a lot of information regarding it that u'ols can gain from there, especially for the expecting mothers.. 

Ok, back to why I suddenly wanna share bout this! Unluckily, I had this disorder when I was pregnant with Faris. Ceritanya begini, Everything went ok *err,not really..Something happened on my 28th week of pregnancy, but will tell bout that later lah!hehe..*, until my regular pregnancy check up with my gynae on 1st of March. Masa check up tuh, my blood pressure dah start spiking high. Reading was 156/88.. Doc conveyed her concern, that my BP was way too high from normal reading. But by then, the urine test was still satisfying. 

So, she checked the baby, Alhamdulillah, baby was ok.. Since she couldn't be sure whether BP spiked hari tu je, or memang dah ada tanda-tanda, she ordered me to write down my BP every 2 days and monitor baby's movement. Oleh itu, I terpaksa borrow BP monitor machine Pn Dyana n Enche Totoi *luckily ada kawan2 yg ada leh pinjam.. Kalo tak,jenuh la nak ulang alik klinik cek BP..Hehehe*..

Since machine tu dah ada kat rumah, I check hari-hari je lah.. Lepas bagitau my mom perihal BP tinggi ni, mama pon menggunakan kuasa veto nya mengarahkan kami anak beranak duduk rumah dia je since then.. Dia susah hati kot I was too tired handling Fatin on my own, since hubby selalu balik malam. Kang collapse sorang-sorang kat rumah dengan Fatin, camano?

So next check up, on 13th, doc pon check lah my BP chart. Memang constantly lebih daripada normal reading. Pulak tuh, urine test hari tu, FAIL! Dah ada protein in my urine.. Dia tanya, ada headache tak? Ada, but not constantly. Ada rasa pedih hulu hati tak? Ada,di malam-malam hari..

Doc dah geleng-geleng. Tapi dia nak check baby dulu.. Alhamdulillah, syukur nikmat, baby masih ok. Kicking like usual. Masa dah scan tu, she checked my legs. Memang lah kaki dah bengkak bagaikan belon dah. Then dia cakap camni:

"Barang baby dah ready dah sume?",

I answered, "Alhamdulillah.. Baru je buat last round shopping yesterday..",

She smiled, the she said,"Mama dah ready?",

I macam terkebil-kebil lah jugak kan. Apakah petandanya ini..?

Then only she said, she wasn't happy with my condition that day and the past week. She said, kalau BP tinggi, dia ok lagi, tapi once dah ada protein in urine, dia dah susah hati. Plus I dah ada other symptoms. And since, I was already 38weeks, and baby dah engaged, she didn't want to take the risk to wait anymore longer, malam tu jugak dia admit kan ward and scheduled for me being induced early in the morning the next day...

Oleh itu, lahirlah Muhammad Faris Rusydi on 14th of March tu... Alhamdulillah, syukur, no complication.. Faris and Mama selamat inspite of being diagnosed to have preeclampsia..Syukur juga sebab the symptoms showed at my last weeks of pregnancy.. Kalau terawal, satu hal pulak kena c-zer and baby pre-mature. Jadi Alhamdulillah la, ngam-ngam choi.. Sesungguhnya Allah tu sebaik-baik perancang kan?

So,k lah.. Next time I post pasal kisah 14 march plak! Wahh..gitu.. Dramatik je tajuk kan?Hahaha..

Kawan-kawan yg expecting, take care of yourself ok.. Harap-harap u'ols tak ada lah symptom preeclampsia ni *Naudzubillah hi minzalik*. Though nampak macam notin, but actually, if severe, mmg boleh membawa maut to the mother & baby. Jadi, do take care ok!

Bye, wassalam.

Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

New Layout Yaww...

Assalamualaikum...

Since I was so tak puas hati dengan kekucar-kaciran my blog's layout recently, I have spent my day today, altering and changing the layout *other than feeding and taking care of Faris, of course*

Actually, sungguh tak paham apa yg berlaku sebab everything seems in order bila check setting kat blogger. I guess, blogger dah tukar some setting yang menyebabkan any template that the user used/downloaded *freely...hihihi...* other than the template design that they recommended akan jadi huru-hara.. Ke? Ataupun, the website yang offer free template design tu yang nak sabotaj sebab mendalah tu free?? 

Haih..,tak kisahlah.. Yg penting, I fixed it, and now, tak pening tengok layout blog sendiri... Muahahaha...

 

Alang-alang, I tukar layout baru sekali... Childish bukan? Hahaha.. Lagi bertambah anak, lagi menjadi kebudak-budakkan pula... Aci je lah.. Hakikatnya, I dah tak larat nak carik lain pulak yg sesuai dengan jiwa dan raga *kunun...*

Jadi, today, this blog got a new layout yaww!! :)

 

Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Assalamualaikum world!!

Assalamualaikum......

alhamdulillah...,my greatest gratitude to Allah s.w.t,i had safely delivered my second child on 14th of march.earlier than it should be.the expected due date is supposed to be 30th.terawal la plak!hehehe...maybe baby letih dok dengar mama dok bising aduk sana adeh sini masa bawak dia...hahaha...

apa-apa pun,syukur,Alhamdulillah,semua dan selamat.baby and mama selamat...he was born at 110pm,via normal delivery,with weight of 2.85kg..

the delivery process,hmm...,i would say,short but rili painful.as compared to myexperience gave birth fatin,this time lagi menguji ketahanan mental lah..hahaha...tapi,mana ada orang bersalin tak sakit!!alhamdulillah jugak setakat kena hadap sakit contraction je,ada org,masa contraction siap dtg pakej ngan nak cirit n muntah bagai..lagi azab...i solute lah pada all mothers out there...kita mmg kuat kan?hahaha....ayat up kaum sendiri...

Alhamdulillah,as expected,kali ni dapat baby boy.ternyata,d ultrasound tech nowadays is reliable!hehehe...the name given to our lil caliph is Muhammad Faris Rusydi.Faris means warrior,courageous,n rusydi means brilliant.
By giving muhammad faris rusydi as ur name my dear son,mama n ayah hope that u'll be a

brilliant warrior of islam who will fight not only wif ur strength,but also wif ur intelligence for islam dat was brought thru hardship by muhammad s.a.w.Amin..,insyaALLAH.

So,Assalamualaikum world! -from Muhammad Faris Rusydi-