Nervous Breakdown...

Assalam u'ols..

Hey,it's been a while..

Ever heard about nervous breakdown? Am having it now...

Huhuhuhu...

Am so nervous bout my research progress...

Sooo much to do stilll...

Sooo little of time... 

Why la clock is ticking darn fast nowadays...

Haiya...

 

Breath in... breath out..... 

Ok, back to work! Focus Farah, FOCUS!! 

Pray for me pals....!!  

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

hari ini dalam sejarah..

Assalam u'ols...

Title nak bajet gempak aje.. Hehehe..

Anyway, how are u'ols my sis n bro? Hopefully we are all in good health and be blessed by God in every breath that we take.. 

Alhamdulillah, I just (tak le 'just' sangat.. Dah sempat mencekik dah..) finished my 1st research progress presentation.. Nervous nyah! Macam tak pernah present pulak nya.. Alhamdulillah, everything went well.. Got some comments from the lecturer, will make improvement and modification accordingly.. 

New semester starts today.. So.., UIA is crowded once again.. Hehehe... InsyaAllah, hoping that this semester will be much better than previous semesters. *Yang kena be better nya saya la..bukan semester itu... Hahaha*

Actually, there's one more thing to share.. And in fact, that thing yang ada kaitan dengan my title tu...

Alhamdulillah, syukur kepada Allah ta'ala.., on 29th January 2012, we finally have received the keys for our first house.... 

Happy nya, Allah sahaja yang tau.. I was smiling all the way.... Tanya Enche Suami.. *dia pun perli-perli...Haha* 

Tipula kalau tak excited, 1st house... And nak cerita punya la excited *actually the word 'jakun' is more suitable, I guess... >.< *, on that evening jugak we went to Puchong Intan to choose and collect the lamps and fans for the house..  *Sangat jakun bukan??*

Oh, I mentioned 'choose and collect' because we already paid for the lamp during the Home Deco Expo last year.. Masa pergi expo tuh, this company, Avalon offered quite a good deal.. We just bought, sort of a package of certain amount and we can choose and collect the lamp within 1 year of purchase. On top of that, they gave free RM200 vaucher for every RM1000 spent. 

So say you bought the RM2000 package, u got RM400 free vaucher, so total up, u'll get RM2400 of lamps and fans. You can choose any type of lamps later on.. Thought it was a good deal, so we took the package.. :)

So last week was a busy week juga lah.. Bukan busy pasal pelajaran, busy pasal hal rumah.. Almaklumlah, masih jakun.. Dok asik pikir pasal rumah je.. Hahaha...

So far, Alhamdulillah, furnitures settled, grill and kitchen cabinet ordered. Tinggal furnitures bilik anak dara belum shopping lagi... We are actually planning to train her to sleep on her own bedroom once we move in.. Since she's 2yrs old already *based on hijriah calendar*, and I plan to wean her soon.., so kira right on time la kebetulan dah dapat masuk rumah baru...  But of course la kena train step by step kan.. 

Mama's advice, 1st step is to deco her room nicely.. So that she's attached to her room.. Sebab tuh la lambat sikit beli furnitures bilik dia.. Nak kena carik yang lovely and cute sikit.. Hahaha...

Again, Alhamdulillah, I'm grateful to the gracious Allah for the rizq and nikmah that he has showered for us.. Alhamdulillah... 

May this little house that we owned will bring more love and barakah to us anak beranak.. Amin..

So k lah... Anyway, I tempek some pictures.. Tak banyak gambar rumah.. Asik lupa nak snap gambar after the house is cleaned.. Hehehe..

View from the house...

Our little home, from outside

Err..I did mentioned that I was smiling all day long kan?

'Ini rumah pertama saya', kata Enche Suami

Us.. Fatin was not there masa amik kunci..huhu

 Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

If that is the case, I chose to be Lalang juga lah...

Assalamualaikum u'ols... 

Hi u'ols.. Just wanna share this super awesome youtube vid by MatLuthfi... 

From my point of view, this 'adik' is sooo talented.. And he has style.. Bukan style apa.. The way he thinks, the way he conveys messages to others, memang cool gila.. I loikkeeee... 

Anyway, enjoy the vid..

Ha..amacam? Amacam?

I know, some might be busy mumbling and condemning right now... But, dengan bangganya I would say, SAYA SANGAT BERSETUJU DENGAN MESSAGE YANG DIA SAMPAIKAN..

Just tired and sick of these perbalahan yang tak habis2.. 

Hey, none of the 'puak' is 100% pure and true! Chill sudah.. Jangan taksub sangat.. 

Dok kutuk sana.., dok kutuk sini.. Kadang2 sampai melarat jadi fitnah.. Ingat, Allah kata.., fitnah tuh lagi dahsyat dari bunuh orang tau! 

Meh la kita bawak-bawak istighfar ye.... Astaghfirullah hal azim... Astaghfirullah hal azim...

ISLAM.., kena berSATU.. Baru kita kuat.... 

Serabut lah gaduh-gaduh ni.. Kalau macam gini punya serabut..., I nak jadi LALANG jugak lah...Matluthfi.., I folo u...

"Jiwa kami kosong, sebab otak kami dah penuh dengan bullshit politic yang hampa dok main..." 

-Matluthfi

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

No..No..No..Marah-marah...

Assalam u'ols..

FYI, since last week, I set my mind that this week, after a loooonggg holiday for CNY + holiday that me myself created *ahakss...*, I will work hard and focus on my research starting from today.. However, my mind is berserabut memikirkan attitude anakanda..

Some says, once ur child entering 2 years old, then u have to prepare mental and physical to nurture them, because this is the most challenging period in bringing up the child.. It's called "Terrible TWO phase". I dunno whether this is true.. But somehow, looking at my baby's attitude, I guess I'm starting to believe it... 

U'ols know what, Fatin Amani is soooo good in portraying her feeling now. And hot-tempered too! Masa cuti nih pulak baru nampak... Hentak-hentak kaki, merajuk, and lately, 'babab' orang bila tak bagi apa dia nak..

Yesterday morning, we went for breakfast.. We brought together her bicycle and put her on it. When we reached the kedai, she refused to get up.. She still wanted to play with her bicycle. So I took her up from her bicycle sambil-sambil pujuk la. She was crying *obviously*, but suddenly, she started to beat me. Memang lah tak sakit pun, but before this, she never did that!! 

Then this morning, I sent her to school. Probably because of too long of holiday, she didn't want to be left there. So the teacher hold her from running towards me la.. Then she did it again.. Slapping her teacher! I was like, WHAT IS HAPPENING WITH MY BABY??? Kenapa jadi garang sangat macam ni??

Adoi.... Now, I got headache!

We never did that to her! Pernah la marah dia, kalau dia degil sangat, but tak pernah pukul dia out of anger macam nak lepas geram macam tuh...  

Ya Allah..., sungguh susah hati....

Is this the 'terrible TWO phase' that they are talking  about...?? Huhuhu..

But anyway, I googled some du'a that WE * Enche suami, we means BOTH OF US.. PLZ TAKE NOTE!* can practice untuk lembutkan hati dan jauhkan dari sifat panas baran...

surah Al-Anbiya, (ayat 69) 

"Qulna Ya Nar  ku ni bardan wa salaman 'ala Ibrahim.."

Kami berfirman: "Hai api menjadi dinginlah, dan menjadi keselamatanlah bagi Ibrahim",

atau Al-Hasyar (ayat 22-24).

Dialah Allah yang tiada Tuhan selain Dia, yang mengetahui yang ghaib dan yang nyata, Dia-lah yang Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Penyayang.

Dialah Allah yang tiada Tuhan selain Dia, raja, yang Maha suci, yang Maha Sejahtera, yang Mengaruniakan Keamanan, yang Maha Memelihara, yang Maha Perkasa, yang Maha Kuasa, yang memiliki segala Keagungan, Maha Suci Allah dari apa yang mereka persekutukan.

Dialah Allah yang Menciptakan, yang Mengadakan, yang membentuk Rupa, yang mempunyai asmaaul Husna. bertasbih kepadanya apa yang di langit dan bumi. dan dialah yang Maha Perkasa lagi Maha Bijaksana.

Fatin Amani,  no..no..no marah-marah ok?? Not good...

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Not a boss, but a friend..

Assalamualaikum u'ols...

Hey u'ols... Check this out.. Very-very useful parenting tips by Wardina *love her, love her!*

One thing that I learnt from this video is, the most powerful tool to be a good parent is COMMUNICATION... A parent should be a friend or companion to their child. Not a boss.. And we have to cultivate that bonding at their very young age.

Reduce this:

• "Pegi mandi!"
• "Siapkan homework"
• "Solat!!!!!"  *dengan suara yang nyaring sekali macam nak suruh pergi perang.. Sungguh annoying*
• "Makan, sekarang!"

Instead, say this:

•  "Dah petang ni sayang, waktu untuk mandi... Kalau kotor, kuman banyak.. Not good!"
• "Hari ni belajar apa kat sekolah? Ada homework tak? Jom kita buat homework.."
• "Ha...dah azan.. Waktu untuk solat! Jom..."

Something like that la.. This is my humble opinion la, if the children already regard the parents as their boss *or someone who only know to give orders!*, asik suruh itu ini, asik kena ikut arahan, once they are older, and they think they are big enough to handle life, and they are in control, at that moment, they will finally decide to stop listening to you at all *nighmare!!*... 

Kalau jenis dengar telinga kanan, keluar telinga kiri tak apa lagi, kalau jenis melawan pulak? Dengan kasar pulak tu...  *like how you usually do when you give orders to them when they were younger... Hey, what goes around comes around kan!*

Hish, Naudzubillah hi min zalik.. I hope it won't happen to any of us ya... Amin... 

And yup, I agree, we have to talk to our child a lot.. So that anak akan rasa comfortable bercerita dengan kita about anything! Indirectly, we can know their well-being. Apa benda baik diorang buat, and apa benda tak baik diorang buat on that day.. 

Oleh itu, saya bertekad untuk bercakap dengan Fatin dengan lebih kerap after this. *Eventho as for now, Mama is having difficult time to understand what is she trying to say and finally end up angguk-angguk dengan muka blur.. Haih.... Kesian anak mama... *

And I want to spend more quality time with her.. Alhamdulillah, for the time being, memang I yang send her to and take her from Educare.. So kena make sure that golden time is used properly. 

Plus, instead of shouting at her if she did something wrong, I'll advise her and explain to her why she can't do that..Kalau nak marah pun, I won't say, "Budak degil" or something bad, instead, I'll say, "Fatin anak yang baik! Tak boleh buat macam ni!"...

So, mari mama-mama, mommy-mommy, ibu-ibu, mak-mak sume.., kita didik anak kita dengan cara yang betul.. Coz they are our amanah given by Allah for us to take care of... :)

Amanah mama & Ayah.. Jadi anak yang solehah ye, Fatin Amani.. We love you..

Wassalam..

 Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*