If that is the case, I chose to be Lalang juga lah...

Assalamualaikum u'ols... 

Hi u'ols.. Just wanna share this super awesome youtube vid by MatLuthfi... 

From my point of view, this 'adik' is sooo talented.. And he has style.. Bukan style apa.. The way he thinks, the way he conveys messages to others, memang cool gila.. I loikkeeee... 

Anyway, enjoy the vid..

Ha..amacam? Amacam?

I know, some might be busy mumbling and condemning right now... But, dengan bangganya I would say, SAYA SANGAT BERSETUJU DENGAN MESSAGE YANG DIA SAMPAIKAN..

Just tired and sick of these perbalahan yang tak habis2.. 

Hey, none of the 'puak' is 100% pure and true! Chill sudah.. Jangan taksub sangat.. 

Dok kutuk sana.., dok kutuk sini.. Kadang2 sampai melarat jadi fitnah.. Ingat, Allah kata.., fitnah tuh lagi dahsyat dari bunuh orang tau! 

Meh la kita bawak-bawak istighfar ye.... Astaghfirullah hal azim... Astaghfirullah hal azim...

ISLAM.., kena berSATU.. Baru kita kuat.... 

Serabut lah gaduh-gaduh ni.. Kalau macam gini punya serabut..., I nak jadi LALANG jugak lah...Matluthfi.., I folo u...

"Jiwa kami kosong, sebab otak kami dah penuh dengan bullshit politic yang hampa dok main..." 

-Matluthfi

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

No..No..No..Marah-marah...

Assalam u'ols..

FYI, since last week, I set my mind that this week, after a loooonggg holiday for CNY + holiday that me myself created *ahakss...*, I will work hard and focus on my research starting from today.. However, my mind is berserabut memikirkan attitude anakanda..

Some says, once ur child entering 2 years old, then u have to prepare mental and physical to nurture them, because this is the most challenging period in bringing up the child.. It's called "Terrible TWO phase". I dunno whether this is true.. But somehow, looking at my baby's attitude, I guess I'm starting to believe it... 

U'ols know what, Fatin Amani is soooo good in portraying her feeling now. And hot-tempered too! Masa cuti nih pulak baru nampak... Hentak-hentak kaki, merajuk, and lately, 'babab' orang bila tak bagi apa dia nak..

Yesterday morning, we went for breakfast.. We brought together her bicycle and put her on it. When we reached the kedai, she refused to get up.. She still wanted to play with her bicycle. So I took her up from her bicycle sambil-sambil pujuk la. She was crying *obviously*, but suddenly, she started to beat me. Memang lah tak sakit pun, but before this, she never did that!! 

Then this morning, I sent her to school. Probably because of too long of holiday, she didn't want to be left there. So the teacher hold her from running towards me la.. Then she did it again.. Slapping her teacher! I was like, WHAT IS HAPPENING WITH MY BABY??? Kenapa jadi garang sangat macam ni??

Adoi.... Now, I got headache!

We never did that to her! Pernah la marah dia, kalau dia degil sangat, but tak pernah pukul dia out of anger macam nak lepas geram macam tuh...  

Ya Allah..., sungguh susah hati....

Is this the 'terrible TWO phase' that they are talking  about...?? Huhuhu..

But anyway, I googled some du'a that WE * Enche suami, we means BOTH OF US.. PLZ TAKE NOTE!* can practice untuk lembutkan hati dan jauhkan dari sifat panas baran...

surah Al-Anbiya, (ayat 69) 

"Qulna Ya Nar  ku ni bardan wa salaman 'ala Ibrahim.."

Kami berfirman: "Hai api menjadi dinginlah, dan menjadi keselamatanlah bagi Ibrahim",

atau Al-Hasyar (ayat 22-24).

Dialah Allah yang tiada Tuhan selain Dia, yang mengetahui yang ghaib dan yang nyata, Dia-lah yang Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Penyayang.

Dialah Allah yang tiada Tuhan selain Dia, raja, yang Maha suci, yang Maha Sejahtera, yang Mengaruniakan Keamanan, yang Maha Memelihara, yang Maha Perkasa, yang Maha Kuasa, yang memiliki segala Keagungan, Maha Suci Allah dari apa yang mereka persekutukan.

Dialah Allah yang Menciptakan, yang Mengadakan, yang membentuk Rupa, yang mempunyai asmaaul Husna. bertasbih kepadanya apa yang di langit dan bumi. dan dialah yang Maha Perkasa lagi Maha Bijaksana.

Fatin Amani,  no..no..no marah-marah ok?? Not good...

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Not a boss, but a friend..

Assalamualaikum u'ols...

Hey u'ols... Check this out.. Very-very useful parenting tips by Wardina *love her, love her!*

One thing that I learnt from this video is, the most powerful tool to be a good parent is COMMUNICATION... A parent should be a friend or companion to their child. Not a boss.. And we have to cultivate that bonding at their very young age.

Reduce this:

• "Pegi mandi!"
• "Siapkan homework"
• "Solat!!!!!"  *dengan suara yang nyaring sekali macam nak suruh pergi perang.. Sungguh annoying*
• "Makan, sekarang!"

Instead, say this:

•  "Dah petang ni sayang, waktu untuk mandi... Kalau kotor, kuman banyak.. Not good!"
• "Hari ni belajar apa kat sekolah? Ada homework tak? Jom kita buat homework.."
• "Ha...dah azan.. Waktu untuk solat! Jom..."

Something like that la.. This is my humble opinion la, if the children already regard the parents as their boss *or someone who only know to give orders!*, asik suruh itu ini, asik kena ikut arahan, once they are older, and they think they are big enough to handle life, and they are in control, at that moment, they will finally decide to stop listening to you at all *nighmare!!*... 

Kalau jenis dengar telinga kanan, keluar telinga kiri tak apa lagi, kalau jenis melawan pulak? Dengan kasar pulak tu...  *like how you usually do when you give orders to them when they were younger... Hey, what goes around comes around kan!*

Hish, Naudzubillah hi min zalik.. I hope it won't happen to any of us ya... Amin... 

And yup, I agree, we have to talk to our child a lot.. So that anak akan rasa comfortable bercerita dengan kita about anything! Indirectly, we can know their well-being. Apa benda baik diorang buat, and apa benda tak baik diorang buat on that day.. 

Oleh itu, saya bertekad untuk bercakap dengan Fatin dengan lebih kerap after this. *Eventho as for now, Mama is having difficult time to understand what is she trying to say and finally end up angguk-angguk dengan muka blur.. Haih.... Kesian anak mama... *

And I want to spend more quality time with her.. Alhamdulillah, for the time being, memang I yang send her to and take her from Educare.. So kena make sure that golden time is used properly. 

Plus, instead of shouting at her if she did something wrong, I'll advise her and explain to her why she can't do that..Kalau nak marah pun, I won't say, "Budak degil" or something bad, instead, I'll say, "Fatin anak yang baik! Tak boleh buat macam ni!"...

So, mari mama-mama, mommy-mommy, ibu-ibu, mak-mak sume.., kita didik anak kita dengan cara yang betul.. Coz they are our amanah given by Allah for us to take care of... :)

Amanah mama & Ayah.. Jadi anak yang solehah ye, Fatin Amani.. We love you..

Wassalam..

 Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Teruskanlah...

Assalamualaikum u'ols..

Suddenly feel like layan lagu nih.. Always a big fan of Agnes.. She's cute! Haha.. Enjoy..

p/s - Jadi tunggul kayu memang tak best kan?

  Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*

Rebonding...

Assalamualaikum u'ols...

Wassup, wassup? Kaifa haluk? Apa khabar semua??

Fuhh..., last week was a disaster.. *ok..exaggeration!*

Out of the blue, my supervisor ordered *yes, literally 'ordered'* me to participate in the research exhibition that will be held the 3rd week of February. I'm totally fine with the date of the exhibition tho, but the one yang I 'TAK-BLEH-BLAH" was the poster submission. 

My SV sent me an email on last Wednesday (11th Jan) telling me that I HAVE to join the exhibition. So I have to submit a poster for it. I was like, "HEH?!". But that wasn't the best part yet, the next line of the email said, 'the due date for the poster submission is on 15th Jan'. Right after that I went, "WHATTTT!!!!"...

And I took the whole day nagging about it.. Haihh...

But, the positive part about it *very positive, indeed*, because of it, I have to speed up my progress to be able to put some results on my poster.. Having a 2nd thought, maybe.., this is my SV's strategy to get me to work hard kot.. Hahahaha.. Tell u what Mr SV, it's working...! Memang kelam-kabut buat kerja ok.. *walopon the poster was so-so only macam budak sekolah rendah, but, Alhamdulillah, at least it's there!*.. 

Oh ya.., thanks to enche suami and friends(Puan Dyana & En Fendy especially) who helped me during the process.. Hehehe..

Cerita dah lari topic..Hahaha..

Alright, actually, what I want to tell on this post is about rebonding.. Confirm lah u'ols tau what is rebonding kan.. Ala, yang bagi rambut lurus, lembut, dan menawan macam dalam iklan rejoice tuh.. Hehehe...

I believe, it's always a nature for a mankind to look good everyday. Because that's actually a part of the nafsu jugakkan.. 

Let me tell u'ols a secret.. To be honest, my hair is not really lovely.. However, I'm grateful t o Allah for at least giving me hairs rather than tak ada hair langsung.. So Alhamdulillah..Hehe..

But on one sweet day, suddenly I had this weird idea to get my hair to be rebonded *Tatau la wujud je tak perkataan ni sebenarnya.. Hantam saja  lah labu.... ;p *

Very weird kan? Macam, 'ting! Nak buat rebonding lah!' , gitu... Even weirder, the idea pop-up masa dekat dalam lab.. Hahaha.. Boleh?

So I asked for my hubby's opinion and permission *of course*... Luckily, he's fine with it. 'Fresh look, apa salahnya...', was his answer..Hahaha...

So with hubby's permission, and my weird desire, I went for it! Kah kah kah... 

The best part of it is, I get it done at my home!! Percaya tak? Oh no.., I didn't do it on my own.. *of course*.. The hairdresser came over to my home!! Best kan?? So, there's no worries of having non-muhrim entering the saloon while u're exposed.. And I don't have to leave my baby *although I might be ignoring her for a while, but at least I know her well-being sebab ada kat rumah! Hehehe..*

Actually one of the purpose of having this post is to promote the hairdresser gak! Hahaha.. I knew her from my cousin sister.. She is a very sweet Malay, Muslim young lady, and considerate too.. I knew she's the right person to get my hair done for some reason, one because she's muslim and a girl, so there's no issues of aurat.. And I'm confident that the chemical that she used is HALAL. Then she can get it done at my home.. Comfortable! Khalas! :) And her service is superb! Alhamdulillah, the results is amazing and satisfying too...

*Here comes the promo part...*

So for those of you who wants to get your hair done, you can call her. Her name is Yana.. Her no is : 017-3272794. But, currently, she's 8-months pregnant... So, maybe u'ols might need to wait until she delivers and done with confinement..Hehehe...

So itu lah ceritanya.. But remember u'ols, it doesn't mean that once u have wonderful, flawless-looked hair that you can show it to everybody.. Do cover your aurah tau! *Ceh macam cakap dengan budak-budak tadika.. Hehehe...*

As for me, my niat is to please my enche suami. Eh, sunat tau berhias untuk suami! Hehehehe... Tak ada la serabai je kan.. Anak baru satu, dah huru-hara.. Kang dia carik lain, kita jugak yang gigit jari.. Hahaha.. Naudzubillah... :) *Enche suami, DON'T EVER THINK ABOUT IT...! Hahahaha...*

Oh btw, for those who might concern about the hukum of rebonding your hair is Islam *I was wondering too at first, so I googled la..*, here are some links that explain the hukum and the hujjah:

• http://muis.ismaweb.net/2010/08/hukum-melakukan-rebonding/
• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XAiJOkYo4s (Ustaz Azhar Idrus, Love him!! hehehe)
• http://soaljawab.jais.gov.my/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=141&Itemid=59

*An advice to my lovely friends: do not blindly accept a hukum that u've might heard and told. Do investigate and study the truth. A hukum must come with a hujjah (quranic verse and hadith).. Without hujjah, I wud say that is just a  doubtful fact..*

Ok lah... Waduh.. Separuh hari for blog! Buat kerja farah! Hehehe..

Take care u'ols.. Wassalam..Bye...

 Loads of love, 

* Farah Jasni*